Be Kind and Considerate



Be on time (or be early). Don’t make people wait on you for a meeting or social activity. Be there 15 minutes early and be ready. If it means you need to drive to a location the ‘day before’ to get your bearings, then do it. Show respect of other people’s time.

Dress for Success – If you don’t think the way you dress makes a difference; think again! People may not tell you it makes an impact; but it does. If you are unsure of the ‘attire’ for a meeting or activity; ask or just ‘dress up’ to be sure.

Confidence Makes a Difference. – A confident person is an asset. Keep your EGO in check; you’ll have more meaningful relationships that are beneficial to you and others.

Be Happy. Sometimes it is tough to be happy but it is the BEST way to keep your mental health in check. Making yourself SMILE really does make you feel better; try it!

Keep your word. If you make a promise to someone; KEEP IT! If you cannot follow through; tell them why. They will appreciate your honesty.

It’s not all about you. Help others even when they cannot do anything for you. The rewards are tremendous and you’ll benefit from your kindness.

Love yourself. Only YOU can make yourself happy; no one can do it for you.

When things go wrong. And they will; learn from the experience and learn to ‘go with the flow’ because you will reduce your stress and make others feel comfortable as well.

Keep learning. Take classes to learn a new skill, hobby or interest. Your mind thrives on challenges that keep you active.

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