Why Mentor?

Mentoring can be a "win-win" relationship for both parties if they are ready to provide positive and honest communication. I have had several Mentors who gave me feedback on my speaking skills and leadership opportunities and who were positive people in my life.

What Mentors provide is a personal observation of how improvements can be made with ongoing progress. Mentors can also help you if you are looking for a new career or project to complete in your life's journey. They can connect you with other people in the profession you are inquring about, lead you to people experts in the field or be a good listener as they work their way through the process.

I value the insights and feedback from Mentors, family and friends; however, I have found Mentors who have specific talents are more effective to provide solid feedback and value experience. I take that information and look at my growth and progress and decide if that feedback is what I needed to move forward or if I want to pursue a certain activity.

Look around. Mentors can be found at your job, school, clubs and organizations. Anywhere you are, there are others who have experience and knowledge that is just waiting to be tapped into so that you can benefit from their journey. Some people attend a training class and see the instructor as a mentor -- that person can certainly be helpful to you; however, I see Mentoring as a long-term commitment. It does not have to be a daily commitment but rather one that helps you when you need the help. Perhaps you are working on a speech - your Mentor can provide you with feedback on your outline as well as the organization of your presentation and possibly to listen to you give your presentation beforehand.

A Mentor in a new organization, can help you learn the culture and protocol of the club; hence, making you more familiar and confident to contribute. The more involved member, the more they will promote a club or project. Many people mentor young kids or young adults. Getting involved at an early ago promote confidence, caring, sharing and goal setting.

Think about mentoring another person in the future to enhance their life and rewarding you with a good feeling of helping others.  It’s a win-win relationship!


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